Women and Courtship

At present even if traditional courtship is becoming obsolete, women should not be the first person to show their feelings to men. If women are accepted to court men in society, I guess there will be no single lady left. All will be free to choose and openly show their feelings to men they want.

Relationship misunderstandings and other lovers’ quarrels will then be limited. Women can now show their true affections and men will be completely aware and knowledgeable of everything in their relationship. More loving and sweetness between lovers will also be evident because I believe that women are real sweeter than men.

If these are all true, I guess I could have chosen the right man for me… :)

Boyfriend requirements

Here's a list of qualities that I look/want for a guy, a must or just hoping to have these qualities present... :)

Good-looking.
Cute.
Charming.
He should be sweet.
A gentleman.
Thoughtful.
Knows how to cook.
Responsible in all his actions.
Loves to travel.
Loves to eat.
Good conversationalist.
Has a decent job.
Has his own car and home.
Shares same interests.
Achiever.
God-fearing.
Sociable.
Patient and understanding.

Number 2

It is hard to be in a situation wherein there's another woman in his life
You know they are together but not sure if they are happy?
He comes to you as if he is not attached
He shows concern, effort and sweetness
He makes you smile and happy
But you know you should not be serious about him
And this happiness is just for awhile
He will again leave you for this other woman
You are not sure if you are doing the right thing
You just go with the flow
But not aware where it will go

I H-A-T-E you

I can't really control my feelings and now I'm blogging about it... I really hate men who are insensitive and selfish.

You should not have said that, you should have thought of what we have been through, what I have been through with you... I know I gave all my best during our time, I became the most caring and loving girlfriend... that you never appreciated at all... that I know I don't deserved that treatment and I don't deserve someone like you...

I think this would be our last, my last for you...

Zero Credit

This morning, I was shocked when I saw my credit card details online, available limit is ZERO. OMG! Is this for real? I felt robbed, I felt so poor... funny ah? Robbed with money that I don't have..haha. What the hell is happening? I felt blank because I don't know how would I manage to pay for all my debts. Waaaaaaaahhhhhhh... So starting tomorrow, I'll be saving my money and stop splurging. I just hope I can do this... so help me God. :)

My Crushie

I don't really like him but I just find him cute and very pleasant to look at. He looks clean and neat. It never came into my mind that I would see him in person. Just this evening, I saw him at a resto and having his 2 fresh buko juice in front of him. :) I had my cam with me but I didn't have the courage to talk to him and have a picture. I was so shy that I was just smiling so hard and laughing at myself because I can't control the excitement and happiness that I was feeling. :P

A bit disappointing experience but I'm just hoping we can again meet in the future. We never know, maybe we are destined. Haha, just kidding. :P Well, I'm just happy that I saw him in person. :)

Hunihan - Pinoy Twitter

Twitter has dominated the online world. You became addicted in tweeting, tweet your breakfast, tweet your trip, tweet your frustrations, tweet sweetness and a lot of tweeting that made you go gaga over twitter.

Now, Pinoys have come up to make tweeting in Pinoy style... Hunihan is now the Pinoy Twitter. Tweet now, join now and conquer the Pinoy world.

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Maghunihan na tayo at abutin ang bawat Pinoy sa mundo. www.hunihan.com

Exhibit D - Mr. Serendipity

You were busy waiting for your man and starting to get frustrated, where the hell is he??? Then while you were rushing to catch the train, you picked up someone else's wallet, and realized that the owner is good-looking, think he's hot and one way to know him is to return his lost wallet!!! :) You then started to look for his number, just any number in his wallet that can lead you to him... You were successful! :) You will see him tomorrow... A bit nervous, you just go with the flow... He invited you for lunch to repay you of your good work... Talked about each other's lives, likes, and other stuffs... Happy, enjoyed the time with him and gone crazy in meeting Mr. Serendipity... :)

Exhibit C - The Chat mate

Nowadays, it is OK to meet someone online...you hooked up in a social media site, exchanged emails and IMs...

Days and nights were spent chatting online... you learned a lot from each other without really seeing and being with that person...

One day, the whole chatting online just stopped... you'll ask but can't do anything about it cause you just met online and that's it!

After some time, he would suddenly pop and there it goes again... Then again, he disappears!

Can we say chatting is like a booty call? Chat mate is there when he needs you for something... not for sex but definitely for something else...

"Me" day at the Spa

Hair Protein Treatment, "Coffee" thingy Body Scrub and Anti-stress thermal massage, all for me please... :)

Finally, got a time to spend my money for myself and to splurge in one day!

Happy, felt relaxed, enjoyed and will definitely do it again... :)

Exhibit B - The LDR Guy

You became a couple, then suddenly he needs to go..love still remains despite the distance...committed but not together...communication is the only key in the relationship..But if the only key was not present, where would the relationship go? Call me stupid, yes it is really stupid to get into this kind of relationship...hoping it will end but reality it won't...you will always be waiting...uncertain about the future...you just have to let go...

My date

One evening, I just decided to have a date with.... Myself! :) Got a time to think and see myself more clearly... there are just some issues I need to face and I guess I now made a choice... :)

Thanks for the hot caramel macchiato, cranberry loaf and a time with Fred... :)

Boka-bularyong Pamatay

Ang mga makikitang salita ay hango sa aming mga nakalap mula sa isang tanyag na tao sa aming industriya. Ninais kong gawing tagalog ang blog na ito dahil walang katulad at mas matitindi ang mga salita na ginamitan ng wikang Filipino. Wala naman akong nais tamaan dito, marami lang ang nakakarinig, nakakaalam at nasisiyahan tuwing maririnig o mababasa ang mga pamatay na salitang ito ngunit di lahat ay nakakaalam ng ibig sabhin kaya sana ito'y magbigay linaw sa mga bagay bagay...

1. "Post-mortem" Focused Group Discussion (FGD)

Ayon sa aming source
This is the term used to refer to the meeting held after an issue has been printed and sold in a magazine industry.

Para sa akin
Ito ang ginagawang pagsusuri sa mga bangkay. Bangkay ba kami at naisipan mo sa amin gamitin ang Post-mortem mo?

2. Hairsplitter-precise

Sentence construction (na lang dahil di nga namin alam ang tunay na kahulugan!)
If we’re to be hairsplitter-precise about it...

Para sa akin
Hmmmm... hindi kita maintindihan lalo na at wala naman akong split-hairs...

3. "Hot off the press" feel

Sentence construction (na lang dahil di nga namin alam ang tunay na kahulugan!)
but I want it to have that “hot off the press” feel…

Para sa akin
Wala talagang tatalo sa mainit at kumukulo pang balita na galing sa Press? Sana madama mo na din ang init ng ulo ng mga tao...

4. Meneger or Manager

Ano ba eto? Epol for Apple? Meneger ba ay tawag sa isang tao na nasa mataas na posisyon? Ikaw ba to?

5. Benner

Isa pang Epol for Apple. So san mo nga ulet gusto ilagay ang benner? Sa taas, sa tuktok, oo nga sa pinaka tuktok para kitang kita agad ang benner, at bubungad sa mga bisita.

6. Prominent Violator

Anu? May kasalanan ba ako at isa akong violator? O eto ba ay isang pasaway na lumalabag sa batas? At kailangan maging sikat ka? Ganun? Ikaw na ang sikat.

7. Beef up

Sentence construction
Is there any way we can beef this up? It’s kind of boring.

Para sa akin
Bakit nga beef lang? Di ba pwede ang pork o pish? O kaya veggie... di ba mas sosyalin ang dating at mag-inarteng vegetarian...

8. Copy 1, Copy 2, Copy 3

Do you copy me? Hehe Copy, copy, copy, talagang mahilig ka dito noh? Dagdagan mo na din ng Paste, paste, paste.

9. Hollerback

Ikaw ba si Holla Back Girl? Pwede nga, babagay nga sau yan, sige pagbutihin mo lang at holla, holla ka lang ah...

Paalala:
Ang lahat ng ito ay katuwaan lamang, bahala ka na kung maiintindihan mo o hinde, kung may maidagdag ka pa, sige lang, at siguradong dadami pa ang boka-bularyong pamatay, sana ito din ay maging dagdag kaalaman, kung gusto mong tularan at gamitin ang mga salitang ito, walang pipigil sau... :)

Call of a Wedding

Would be my scariest nightmare...I think if ever this will happen to me, I would go crazy... it won't just be an embarrassment but deep disappointment in life... :(

I just got a news from a friend that his supposed to be wife had postponed their wedding without informing him first and gave a very, very lame reason, I think.... will you accept a reason that a sibling caused some trouble and family needs to settle the problem and cancel your BIG day...?

If ever you would cancel your wedding or you suddenly didn't want to get married, it would be best to just say it straight and not come up with lame excuses just to cancel it! It will be hard to accept it but we all have to be honest with our feelings and avoid hurting more the other person.

I really felt sad hearing this story... :(

Lenka - The Show Lyrics

While in the car this morning, this song somehow inspired me... :) searched it right away and posted it... in bold are the words that I can relate to... :)

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I'm just a little bit caught in the middle
Life is a maze and love is a riddle
I don't know where to go I can't do it alone I've tried
And I don't know why

Slow it down
Make it stop
Or else my heart is going to pop
'Cause it's too much
Yeah, it's a lot
To be something I'm not

I'm a fool
Out of love
'Cause I just can't get enough

I'm just a little bit caught in the middle
Life is a maze and love is a riddle
I don't know where to go I can't do it alone I've tried
And I don't know why

I'm just a little girl lost in the moment
I'm so scared but I don't show it
I can't figure it out
It's bringing me down I know
I've got to let it go
And just enjoy the show

The sun is hot
In the sky
Just like a giant spotlight
The people follow the sign
And synchronize in time
It's a joke
Nobody knows
They've got a ticket to that show
Yeah

I'm just a little bit caught in the middle
Life is a maze and love is a riddle
I dont know where to go I can't do it alone I've tried
And I don't know why

I'm just a little girl lost in the moment
I'm so scared but I don't show it
I can't figure it out
It's bringing me down I know
I've got to let it go
And just enjoy the show

Just enjoy the show

I'm just a little bit caught in the middle
Life is a maze and love is a riddle
I dont know where to go I can't do it alone I've tried
And I don't know why

I'm just a little girl lost in the moment
I'm so scared but I don't show it
I can't figure it out
It's bringing me down I know
I've got to let it go
And just enjoy the show

dum de dum
dudum de dum

Just enjoy the show

dum de dum
dudum de dum

Just enjoy the show

I want my money back
I want my money back
I want my money back
Just enjoy the show

I want my money back
I want my money back
I want my money back
Just enjoy the show

Top 10 reasons being Single is Sexy

1. You only love yourself.
2. You enjoy every minute alone.
3. You can do anything you want and think what you want.
4. You don't have to worry about anything or anyone.
5. You have all your time for yourself.
6. You can meet and hang out with anyone.
7. You can go out with your other girl and boy friends without curfews and/or restrictions.
8. You can date different men.
9. You become independent and responsible.
10. You will learn significant realizations about life.